In my mind, NOAA is the Standard, but here are a few others I check:

http://www.windfinder.com/forecast/south_bass_island

http://www.windfinder.com/forecast/m...buoy_lake_erie

http://www.iwindsurf.com/windandwher...=95&siteID=849

http://windmapper.com/GL/forecast

I sort of take what all of the sites predict and aggregate them into my own "forecast".

In terms of wind & wave forecast, anything beyond 5 days is a crap shoot. You may find someone forecasting it, but its only slightly better than an educated guess.